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Self-Sabotage & Breaking Negative Patterns · Relationships

Breaking My Relationship Patterns

Identifying & Interrupting What Holds You Back in Love

Section 1 | My Recurring Relationship Patterns

We often repeat the same relationship patterns across different people — not because we're weak, but because patterns are familiar. Check every pattern you recognize across more than one relationship.

Choosing the Wrong People

How I Show Up

Conflict & Endings

Core Beliefs Driving My Patterns

The pattern I have repeated most often across my relationships

Section 2 | Deep Dive — My Top Patterns

Pattern 1

Describe how this pattern plays out
How long have I repeated this pattern?
What need or fear is underneath this pattern?
The short-term payoff (why I keep repeating it)
The long-term cost (what it takes from me)

Pattern 2

Describe how this pattern plays out
What need or fear is underneath?
The long-term cost

Pattern 3

Describe how this pattern plays out
What need or fear is underneath?
The long-term cost

Section 3 | Finding the Common Thread

The core belief about myself that runs through my patterns
The core belief about relationships that runs through my patterns
The underlying emotional need my patterns have been trying to meet

My relationship patterns most often show up when I feel:

Section 4 | What I Actually Want

The qualities I genuinely want in a relationship (not what I've settled for)
How I want to feel in a healthy relationship

Patterns I want to leave behind

New relationship patterns I want to build

Section 5 | My Commitment to Change

The pattern I am most committed to breaking first
One specific thing I can do this week to act differently

Patterns can change. The fact that you can see them clearly is already a sign of growth. You are not destined to repeat what you've lived. New patterns are built one honest choice at a time.

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